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Cultivating a Bigger Heart: Insights from Dr. Ron Schneebaum
Published May 9, 2025 by Rosabel Zohfeld
Life’s most meaningful moments often come not from grand achievements, but from simple, heart‐to‐heart connections. In a recent episode of The Life Unscripted Podcast, I had the privilege of speaking with Dr. Ron Schneebaum, a retired pediatrician and author of Bigger Hearted: A Retired Pediatrician’s Prescriptions for Living a Happier Life. Below are some of the key takeaways from our conversation—along with ways you can connect with Ron, order his book, and grab a copy of my own.
Healing Childhood Hurts Without Reopening Wounds
Dr. Ron describes our unprocessed childhood traumas like a splinter in a lion’s paw—“it makes walking incredibly uncomfortable…we’re not ourselves until we learn to pull it out and let it heal.” Acknowledging the hurt, recognizing it wasn’t our fault, and cultivating self-compassion allows true healing without reliving every painful detail.
“It makes walking incredibly uncomfortable…we’re not ourselves until we learn to pull it out and let it heal.”
Balancing Head and Heart
We often think exclusively with our intellect—or with our hearts. Ron likens these to the two blades of a pair of scissors: if we only use our intellect, we become cold and calculating; if we only follow our heart, we risk being overwhelmed by emotion. True fulfillment emerges when intellect guides our actions and heart guides our intentions.
Rediscovering Your Inner Child
“Children at six months have the most wonderful smiles…we were all that child,” Ron reminds us. Beneath layers of adult responsibilities, we can tap back into that natural openness and curiosity. Embracing moments of playfulness and wonder—even amid life’s chaos—helps us reconnect with the essence of who we are.
The Transformative Power of Listening
Dr. Ron compares empathetic listening to a boat passing through a canal lock: when you listen, you close the doors, level the water, and let love carry the boat through. Simply giving someone your undivided attention—without judgment or the urge to fix—can be the most healing act of all.
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